These days if a man insist on his woman staying home all day while he’s at work it’s a greater chance in today’s American society he is asking for problems. Better to not give her problems about that while she remembers why she should stay married to you rather then to make her stay home to get overly acquainted with the single neighbor body builder Jose , or Leroy.
And if he make her work she will meet a cute co worker that she ends up cheating with!…so just hush!
It could go either way so like Joe Tex said to us a couple of decades ago take care you homework fellas if you don’t somebody will
Or the Cornelius Brothers and Sister Rose say
You Better Treat Her Like A Lady.
But cheating is not exactly the same as leaving with just cheating you have a chance to save it’s time for reflection but when she’s gone something was already wrong from the get go I don’t care what long term couple you know at least eighties percent has cheated or thought strongly about it.
Don’t live with the mindset that so-called black men in your generation are this and that. Just pray and hope you settle with the one that’s absolutely different than the rest in your generation because you are not looking to settle with every one of them. There are good and bad apples on every apple tree.
There are plenty young people that age in college pursuing business don’t believe the stereotype now what are you doing for yourself these are the formative years go to any major college campus and who do you see walking around with books ? People in your age bracket please don’t waste your youth pursue education and growth relationships will happen this is from a 56 year old elder written in love for my people.
You can all the intelligence in the world, but if not have respect for culture and its struggle, you’ll struggle with a man or woman.. Its many smart people who lack common ethical sense of how a team is built and what it takes for us to win together.. I’m a man who love a women who is love by all people, not who they just desire love from..women who respect culture and men as well who see the self destruction of us, will work harder at loving each other. But if you all about your materials and education then you’ll always bee fooled and left behind.. Black people aren’t building anything but influence by everything that is BS, our music, TV, the lies that our people tell each other and the hypocrites that who represents us in power.. Were no good if we keep ignoring our cultural needs.. You want a man, seek one whom value is people and culture.